Mary Martens Ziemer’s
Eulogy at the Mass for Clement B. Martens
The first
time I brought Uncle Clem to his home town of Coleman was Nov. 4,1997.
In the
spring of 1998 we took Uncle Clem and four of our granddaughters ages 8, 6,
6, &5 to the cottage. They wanted to go fishing, their fishing poles were
all tangled together in knots. Uncle Clem sat on the porch and patiently untangled
each pole. We brought a chair to the lake and he help the girls put the worms
on the hook and he talked about fishing.
I have no doubt that Uncle Clem came to live with us on February 12. 1999
through an intervention of the Lord. He has totally blessed all of our family,
our friends and our community. I will be forever changed because I had the
privilege of taking care of him.
Uncle
Clem was my side kick---we went everywhere together. When we picked up supplies
for Richard we would go to a movie, or shopping, or visit the nursing home
or stop at one of my kids and play dice or cards. We weren’t home very
much.
I remember
telling him one day in the car, that we were a blessing to each other. He
was so kind, loving and polite. He loved hugs and kisses. His memory was better
than mine and I would often ask him to remind me to stop somewhere.
We had
a Birthday Party for him every year in the Parish Hall after Mass.
He loved to socialize, laugh and have fun. He liked a brandy old fashion with
sour & lots of Olives—the more olives you could put on the stick
the better he liked the drink.
He liked
to joke, had a good sense of humor with a twinkle in his eyes. He had a beautiful
smile. He taught me his favorite dice game Zilch and we played it almost everyday.
He liked to watch The Price Is Right.
He enjoyed
football, baseball and golf on television. He was sharp as a whip even though
he could not see very well. I took him to a wrestling match, basketball &
baseball game & a track meet at Coleman High School.
Every
night we prayed the First Glorious Mystery to the Most Holy Rosary THE RESURECTION
along with other prayers. He loved life and his Catholic faith.
In 1999
I had convention in Florida. This was the first time Uncle Clem ever flew
in a plane that held more than 4 people.
Upon hearing
that this was his first flight at 95 years old, the flight attendant pinned
wings on Uncle Clem’s shirt and gave him a bottle of wine.
He thanked
her and smiled from ear to ear. He was proud to tell people how old he was
because he didn’t look or act 95.
In Oct. 1999 the three of us flew again to Boise Idaho for our God-child’s
wedding.
In 2000
I had another convention in California. Richard and Uncle Clem toured the
Queen Mary, the Crystal Cathedral and the Wax Museum. They enjoyed each others
company.
In 2001
I had another convention in Florida. Richard and Uncle Clem flew in a helicopter
over Disney Land & around Orlando. What a thrill. We stayed in Florida
for several days and we went to Disney Land and Bush Gardens.
He loved
his caregivers, especially Regina and Marvin Brickner who stayed in our home
whenever we were gone and took care of him.
There
was something wonderful about his spirit, it didn’t matter how old or
young you were—he touched your life.
Uncle
Clem entered the hospital on October 3, 2003 with pneumonia.
On December
26th he was recuperating at San Luis Nursing Home,
Our daughter
Sara arranged for us to take Uncle Clem to our Family Christmas party in Howard.
We could keep him for 2 hours.
We ate
supper and then Uncle asked for a drink of water. I was giving him a drink
of water with a straw and he said “its not water” and I said “yes
it is” and he said no its not –taste it---so I tasted it and-----it
was white soda----we all laughed and I gave him a drink of water. Then he
opened presents.
We took pictures with Uncle Clem being the oldest at 99 and holding the youngest
grandchild Madison, one month old.
He went
back to the nursing home and talked and talked about how much fun he had with
the family.
He loved
all his nieces and nephews and looked forward to their visits.
On January
11, 2004 the Registered Nurse that was on duty from 11:00 to 7:00 came into
the room and said “ we live through trial and tribulations on earth
and then we graduate & have a graduation party”. Uncle Clem’s
eyes had been open for about 36 hours and they were very dry. At 3:30 A. M.
Sunday morning “The Baptism of our Lord” the Nurse said “He
is gone” the very moment her words came out of her mouth a single tear
rolled down the side of his cheek. He must have seen something so magnificent
that he shed a tear. I have been blessed to witness his passing into new life.
There are no words great enough to express how he touched our lives. He was
part of our family. We loved and cared for him and in turn he blessed all
of us. |